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Re: Suicide: What Stopped You and Why Are You Here Now?

Jules ·
My family..most importantly my two young daughters!
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Re: How to accept what happened to you

HollyO ·
Thank you for posting this. I am almost at that step, but still feel under his grip. I will read your encouragement during the dark days. <3
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Re: How to accept what happened to you

concrete angel ·
Your welcome. I'm glad I was able to shed some light your way :). Have a happy holiday .
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Re: Getting over the abuser

mod8 ·
Hello MRYAN, Thank you for joining our websites and for sharing your story. I know that it took a lot of courage to share your experience. Are you in a safe place right now? No one should go through that in any circumstance. You are so brave and resilient be to able to discuss what you have been through. Being able to share your story is a huge step towards healing but also inspire others to do the same and share their experiences. I would recommend you to join our chatroom to talk with...
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Re: Getting over the abuser

mod7 ·
Hello ALEJANDRA, Thank you for sharing your experience here at YesIcan. It seems you have a lot of questions that can be answered by you. Sometimes those questions are difficult to answer because they may not be the answers we want to hear, or sometimes it is just overwhelming to think about it. If you would like, you can also join a chat group here in YesIcan, and you can discuss or share the ideas you might have towards finding some answers. Whatever you choose to do, choose for you and...
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Re: Getting over the abuser

MRyan ·
I have been in a 12 year marriage with my son's father who started off being so nice and sweet. I got with him at 17 married 3 months later. I find it hard 8 years later hard to let things go even though I know I could never be with him again because it would be so different. I can't tell you why because I find myself in the same boat. But I like you would like to talk to others that's been in the same boat. I use to think because he didn't punch or hit me that it wasn't abuse but I was...
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Suicide: What Stopped You and Why Are You Here Now?

RoseRM ·
Nobody knows whether there is a god. Or whether we have souls. Maybe there is nobody out there looking out for us, and when we die our consciousness evaporates, leaving nary a dent in the vastness of the cosmos. When you've gone through some pretty hard stuff at the hands of the ones you love, sometimes that seems like the most reasonable answer. I want you to mentally raise your hand if the reason you're even on this website in the first place is because you have been abused. I'm going to...
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Getting over the abuser

Alejandra ·
Hi everyone, I'm going to start off by apologizing for the long post but I realized I might get the help I need just by talking to other woman that have been in my shoes and have gone through bad relationships that turned abusive. I'm 27 years old and I'm still figuring my life out, I'm a full time worker and a part time student. I left my ex 5 years ago but he some how is still popping back in my life through these 5 years. it all started when I was 17 years old i started dating my first...
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How to accept what happened to you

concrete angel ·
I myself a victim never thought the pain would end. It does. But you can't sit there and get lost in your sorrow, anxiety, panic, or depression. Don't waste forever feeling sorry for yourself. Get help. Therapy, medicine, be creative, have a glass of wine, hang out with your old friends. Relax... Breathe. Find ways to smile. I know believe me sometimes it's not that easy (you may wanna stay in bed and cry forever) but isn't fighting this so much better than letting your predator win? Haven't...
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Re: Getting over the abuser

cristiana ·
I am so sorry for what you have been going through.... I have gone through mental, emotional, financial, physical abuse committed by my husband, who proved to be a monster... A monster who knew how I was feeling, but didn’t feel it himself. This gave him a great advantage, because he was able to understand what I was thinking, it’s just that he wouldn't care, so he can use ME against myself. I lost my friends, my social life, my self-confidence, the respect for myself..... Now I have been...
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Re: Getting over the abuser

mod8 ·
Hi CRISTIANA, Thank you for joining our website and for sharing your experience. I know that it wasn't easy to do. I'm glad that you are getting the help that you need and regaining yourself.
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Re: Getting over the abuser

Shae ·
Today is my first post. I decided to start writing about my feelings in a chat room in hopes that maybe someone will have something to say that will quicken in my spirit. About a month ago, violence in the relationship came to a head. He choked me - and I didn’t even realize I was unconscious until the forensic nurse asked me if I peed on myself. All I remember about that moment is fighting for my life. A week before, he pushed me down into my end table, leaving a huge gash and bruise on my...
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