A friend of mine just told me that his wife has been abusing him. He tells everyone his scars are from Iraq, but they're really from her stabbing him on multiple occasions. He came to work with bruises and said he got in a bar fight, but it was really from her. She cheats on him and brags about it. He won't leave her though because he doesn't want to be an every-other-weekend dad. He called the police recently and they told him they would have arrested HIM if she hadn't left before they got there. What can I tell him? It seems like all the resources out there are for women only, including the police. He's right about child custody too, she would definitely be the primary parent because she doesn't work.